Steve's essays are long, and they are not comfortable, let alone comforting. But I think each is a must read.
My own struggles are different, though I admit that each resonates with me. And maybe, if I am so moved enough one day, I may open up on mine.
Holding your breath is inadvisable, however.
In any event, here are the essays.
Yes, Steve is a close friend, and I am partial to him on that basis. But objectively, there is so much which is distorted and just wrong in the culture of the modern church that there is no escaping the need to examine them carefully.
Not to mention responding with something more than "I assert [apologetic trope/catchphrase], so that's why *I'm* Catholic.